Dear James,
I understand fully why you would want to create a beautiful speech for the christening and baptism of your son.
Mark Twain once told a story of a christening.
He spoke of a priest, a humble clergyman, who was prone to jump to conclusions sometimes. One day he was invited to officiate at a christening and so he went. The little clergyman's instinct came to him to make a great speech. Something grand and meteroic. He was given to flights of oratory that way--which as Twain noted is often a very dangerous thing, for often the wings which take one into clouds of oratorical enthusiasm are wax and melt up there, and down you come.
But the priest couldn't resist. He took the child in his arms, and, holding it, looked at it a moment.
It wasn't much of a child. It was little, says Twain, like a sweet-potato. Then the clergyman waited impressively, and said, "I see in your countenances disappointment of him. I see you are disappointed with this baby. Why? Because he is so little? My friends, if you had but the power of looking into the future you might see that great things may come of little things.
There is the great ocean, holding the navies of the world, which comes from little drops of water no larger than a woman's tears. There are the great constellations in the sky, made up of little bits of stars. Oh, if you could consider his future you might see that he might become the greatest poet of the universe, the greatest warrior the world has ever known, greater than Caesar, than Hannibal, than--er--er" ...turning to the father, the priest asked, "what's his name?"
The father hesitated, then whispered back: "His name? Well, his name is Mary Ann."
"COURAGE!!!" Shouted the priest.
I guess my point James is that at times we often believe the more important the occassion the greater the speech we need to deliver.
As your son's father, your love is unquestioned. I feel that whatever you say you will feel is not fitting. However, you say it, you will wish you said it differently.
Perhaps in a speech such as this, it is hard to rehearse the true feelings of pride and joy you will feel as a father at your child's christening and baptism. Perhaps those feelings are the strongest and those which should compose your speech?
------------- Martin Daniels
Presentation Consultant, www.123ppt.com
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